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It’s Hard to Tell Family About Sex, Love or Money
I met Andy the first day of college. He was the funniest, strongest and most outgoing person at school. The
kind
of guy an only child
like me
would want as a brother. He
rushed into my room after Thanksgiving break, produced a notepad scribbled
with boxes and arrows and said, “I told my
mom about you. We’re related!” (My
grandfather’s first cousin had married Andy’s great-aunt.) It’s hard to tell family
about sex, love or money, so I
tell Andy — as a friend. It’s hard to tell a friend
you love
him, so I tell Andy — as family. — Matthew Morchower